Kathleen Ann Stallmer, 80, of Clifton Park, NY passed away peacefully after a very brief illness on August 26, 2020 surrounded by her loving children. She was born in Troy, New York and was the daughter of the late Emmett and Rita “Dolly” Roarke Grogan and the beloved wife of Joseph P. Stallmer who passed away on July 20, 2013. Kay was a graduate of Catholic Central High School, Class of 1957. She began her career with the New York State Department of Labor. After marrying Joe in 1963 and relocating to Virginia, she was employed by the Office of the Secretary of Defense at the Pentagon. After returning to New York to be closer to family, Kay spent over 25 years with the IRS before retiring from a long distinguished career in Federal Service. During her retirement years, she played MahJong with friends and enjoyed teaching others the game. She was an avid reader and she and Joe enjoyed traveling in their later years. She will be remembered for her devotion to her family, sense of humor, happy-go-lucky nature, loving spirit, and the ability to always find a silver lining in every cloud. She was a communicant of St. Edward the Confessor Church in Clifton Park. Devoted mother of Colleen Stallmer, Mary Ann Jones (Todd Martinovich), Patricia Stallmer, Erin Roberts, Meghan Weisbeck (Joseph) and Sean Stallmer, loving sister of Rita Duncan (David) of Brunswick, NY and the late Betty Bassett (Donald) of Clifton Park and the late Sister Gail Grogan, MMB, sister-in-law of John Stallmer (Irene) and Thomas Stallmer (Marlene), cherished grandmother of Taylor Estes, Anna Jones, Trevor Jones, Gavin Orr, Logan Orr, Finnegan Roberts, Kason Weisbeck and Colton Weisbeck, also survived by several nieces and nephews and their families. Relatives and friends are invited and may call on Saturday, October 24, 2020 from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. and to attend the Mass of Christian Burial that morning at 11:00 a.m. both at St. Edward the Confessor Church, 569 Clifton Park Center Road, Clifton Park, NY 12065. All attendees are required to wear facial coverings, adhere to social distancing and understand that there are capacity limitations. Interment will be held on Monday, October 26, 2020 at 10:00 a.m. at the Gerald B.H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery, 200 Duell Rd., Schuylerville, NY 12871. Please gather within the cemetery entrance on the left between 9:35 a.m. and 9:50 a.m. Memorial contributions remembering Kay may be made to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America. Please feel free to use the tabs on this website to Add Condolences or to Share a Memory.