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Stephen M. "Steve" Grey

1960 - 2025

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CALLING HOURS

4:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Friday, April 25, 2025

St. Edward The Confessor Catholic Church

569 Clifton Park Center Road

Clifton Park, New York, United States

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MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL

11:00 am

Saturday, April 26, 2025

St. Edward The Confessor Catholic Church

569 Clifton Park Center Road

Clifton Park, New York, United States

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FINAL RESTING PLACE

St. Paul's Cemetery Mausoleum

Cemetery Avenue

Mechanicville, New York, United States

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Christine Strazzi posted a condolence

Friday, April 25, 2025

I had the honor of meeting Steve 2 years ago, he was a man of great humor who loved our rides, lunches and peanut butter ice cream. You and your family will always be a part of me. I am sorry for your loss, just know he will always be with you.

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Suzanne Choopani uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, April 23, 2025

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Stevie was my childhood friend first and foremost. He was always kind and sweet. No drama, just fun. I missed him so much in the summer when he went away for long road trips and camping. The Pruyn Hill gang just wasn’t the same when he was gone. As we got older, instead of riding bikes, playing catch and hide and go seek; we switched to skiing, boating and going on vacations. And the friendship just grew stronger. Stevie simply lit up a room. He made you smile and feel good. Somewhere along those years, Stevie became my brother as well as my friend. We celebrated many milestones together. He loved my parents, husband and children as if they were family and I love his beautiful wife Janet like a sister and Emily and Ian as a niece and nephew. There is so much I admire about my dear friend Stevie. I admire his strength, intelligence, integrity, sense of humor and adventure, style and grace. But above all, Stevie will be remembered for his kindness and love for his family and friends and how he made everyone feel. Loved. Until we meet again, Suzanne Choopani

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Gail Taras posted a condolence

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

I am so sorry to learn of the passing of Steve. Steve was my agent for 26 years and never did I once ever have a problem getting a hold of Steve and getting the information I would need. My condolences to all Steve’s family and friends. RIP Steve

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Monday, April 21, 2025

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Always smiling! NYLIC Club 1986

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The Shine Family posted a condolence

Friday, April 18, 2025

We are saddened to hear of Steve’s passing. Shannon met Steve while working at NY Life and was so appreciative of Steve’s willingness to come along side a new agent and share his wisdom and expertise. Our children were in school together and we saw firsthand Steve and Janet’s love of family and community in all that they did. Steve always had a smile on his face and his love of life was evident in the joy that bright smile radiated. Heartfelt condolences to Janet, Emily and Ian.

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Tony & Audrey Tesoriero posted a condolence

Monday, April 14, 2025

So sad to hear of his passing. We always enjoyed his company be it personally & professionally. We were so happy to have seen him & Janet at Dave T's house. We will miss his smile.

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Sue Reasoner Whitaker posted a condolence

Sunday, April 13, 2025

I met Steve at Oswego State, when I moved onto the 7th floor of Hart Hall. He was kind, funny and his smile would light up the room! We had a GREAT group of friends from our floor and we have all remained friends through the years. My heart goes out to Janet and family. As you continue to live life, always remember the wonderful memories you shared with Steve. He will be greatly missed.

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Steve Gaydorus (Hank) posted a condolence

Sunday, April 13, 2025

As a fellow fraternity brother at Oswego with Zeta Chi Zeta, I have many fond memories with Steve. He was a great and wonderful person. All my condolences go out to both his close and extended families…He will be missed.

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Maribeth Verdile-Cook posted a condolence

Saturday, April 12, 2025

Janet and family, I am so sorry for your tremendous loss, but he is now at rest. Back in high school there was a solid group of friends and Steve was one of them, he made us laugh all the time, great to be around , always positive and a special part of MHS CLASS OF '78. Maribeth Verdile-Cook

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Rick & Sue Mincher posted a condolence

Saturday, April 12, 2025

There is a unique and wonderful quality of gentlemen who grew up in Mechanicville and entered the business world. It is evident in their integrity and dedication to a higher purpose. The Grey family exemplifies that and so much more. Stephen brought great joy to the lives of many. Janet, Dan and the entire Grey family, I want to thank you so very much for being such wonderful friends.

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Jeffrey M Mendelowitz posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

Steve and I met as teenagers and quickly became great friends. Funny, smart, charming, witty and highly respected by all. You are gone but never forgotten. God bless The Greyman!!

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Mary Stokes posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

I knew Steve’s Mom and Dad first. When Steve came to New York Life we had many good times in the “Bull Pen” and at Club meetings. Steve was always smiling and laughing, just a fun guy. Janet I am so sorry for the loss of the love of your life and best friend and truly a great guy! May God bring you strength during the difficult time.

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Peter posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

We go way back Stephen. I got a sign from you saying you are well in the spirit world. Godspeed. Until we meet again.

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Laury Cunniff posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

I have known Steve and his family since we were children. Every time I came to visit my grandparents, Erin, Steve, Danny and myself would play together. May Steve Rest in Peace. Thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

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Margot & Carl posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

Steve always had a ready smile & a kind word for each of us. We always enjoyed chatting & working with him whether it was in the community, in a business setting or as clients. His love for Janet & the kids was completely evident & his bright light will be missed by many. Sending you all prayers for peace and strength at this difficult time. Margot & Carl

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Dan and Lisa Starks posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

Janet and family, what a beautiful tribute to a beautiful man. We are so very sorry for your loss. Love and prayers to all. Steve may you RIP.

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Nancy and Pat O’Hara posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

We remember the first time Steve came down to West Babylon and met the family. You could tell he was a bit nervous but maintained the “bewilderment “ smile. That wonderful smile never left. A true gentlemen, great husband and father. A fantastic brother in-law with a classy taste for clothes(although I never understood the sweater tied around his neck!) Loved him. Bless Janet, Emily and Ian

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Kris (Amodeo) Lanchantin posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

Janet as you know by now, growing up in Mechanicville was a unique experience for all of us. Though I wasn’t close with Steve I knew him - as we knew everybody in school. We all grieve with you. I hope you and the kids can remember the good things and happy times. And he will live on in your kids. Sending hugs.

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Sue Ruddy posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

Janet, Emily and Ian, I am so very sorry for your loss. Steve was such a wonderful man and I have so many great memories from the 2 years we were neighbors. Janet you and Steve welcomed our family with open arms and made us feel welcome in our new home. I will never forget our favorite neighbors.

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Fran and Bill Hannan posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

Sending our love and sympathy on the loss of our dearest friend, Steve! How lucky were we to have had Steve and Janet by our side throughout the many years raising our families together in Clifton Park and then following each other to our downsized lifestyle in Saratoga and winter escapades in Sarasota! And, for Bill, who had the pleasure of growing up with Steve in Mechanicville, he will be missed beyond words. We will never look at an Adirondack chair, a Tommy Bahama beach chair, a shot of Scotch, Gore or Willard Mountains, a good Italian meatball, white water rafting, dancing to “Love Shack” and our IRAs without thinking of Steve.

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Carolyn Costanzo posted a condolence

Friday, April 11, 2025

It is with a heavy heart that I wish to convey my deepest sympathy to Janet, Emily, Ian, and Steve's siblings. I will always remember all our wonderful times together in the 60 years that we knew one another. From our wonderful childhood on Pruyn Hill, through our teenage years, adulthood, and my many years working for Steve. I will truly miss him.

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Friday, April 11, 2025

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