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Jill (Whinnery) and Ron Smith posted a condolence
Monday, August 16, 2021
We were so very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Please know we are thinking of you all.
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Nicole Cervantes posted a condolence
Monday, August 16, 2021
I will also remember Uncle Tom as being the nicest person who always made me feel seen. He was a special guy and we will miss him ❤️
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Sunday, August 15, 2021
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Don Dwyer posted a condolence
Sunday, August 15, 2021
I worked with Tom for years at DOT, and we traveled together to NYC twice a week for 7 years. Even though I was his supervisor, I think we both knew I worked for him!
From him I learned how to inspire people to follow you, and the importance of fighting for what you know to be right. To this day, I approach every problem or issue I face through the lens of “What would Carlo do?”.
On day in Penn Station as we were returning from a work trip, we found the platform that our train would be boarding from (Tom made it his business to meet and form a relationship with all the Conductors, so he had the inside track), and we waited at the top of the escalator. The escalator was running up, a trick the Amtrak uses to keep people from descending to track level before the train arrived. We had been there for 5 minutes when we both saw something on one of the escalator treads. As it was carried up towards us, we saw that it looked like a folded dollar bill. It struck us as strange that this bill should arrive seemingly from nowhere.
We smiled at each other as we watched it being carried toward us. The escalator carried it to the top and deposited it at Tom’s feet. He bent to pick it up and to our surprise it was a $50 bill! We were stunned, and I said something like “Someone is going to miss this!”. Tom didn’t comment, just slipped it into his pocket.
About 5 minutes later, we were approached by a panhandler, a common sight then. As the man approached us asking us for change, Tom dropped the folded bill into the man’s Styrofoam cup. The man barely nodded, but as he turned away he glanced at the bill, and seeing that the “dollar” was a $50, his eyes bulged and he missed a step. He turned to murmur thanks, but Tom was looking in another direction. I said to Tom that that was very generous, and he shrugged, saying that the homeless man needed it.
Tom did what was right. He took a random gift and passed it on to someone else. Not for thanks or recognition, but because it was the right thing to do.
I learned a lot from Tom. We all knew his sense of humor, his quick “shots” and easy laughter. His work ethic and his stubbornness when he believed he was in the right. But I wanted to tell you of his selflessness. Thanks Tom!
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Saturday, August 14, 2021
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dbydvm@gmail.com posted a condolence
Saturday, August 14, 2021
We are very sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Dirk and Patti Yelinek
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Richard (Dick) Murray posted a condolence
Saturday, August 14, 2021
To Tom Carlo's family - I was very sad to see the passing of Tom Carlo. I worked with him at the NYS DOT Soil Mechanics Bureau for many years. I also experienced many of those "jokes, quips and cracks", but tried my best to respond in kind. Tom was a good friend and I am very thankful to have met and worked with him. Please accept my sincere condolences at your loss.
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Michele Bowden posted a condolence
Saturday, August 14, 2021
Our thoughts are with all of you.
I will always remember playing at your parents house as a child, all our visits to Schaghticoke and all of your visits to Newport.
Not many people have had the great gift to know great aunts and uncles and their children and grand children well.
Not just know their names but have wonderful memories of sharing a life. I cherish this great gift.
Wishing you all peace and love.
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. George & Beverly, Ken & Paula, Beverly & Neil, George & Melinda, Bob & Karen
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Jennifer Carrillo posted a condolence
Saturday, August 14, 2021
Once upon a time... all I remember was running through his house with Suzy and him yelling for us to take it outside... which by the way when you are young, was the size of a jungle!! Even back then he was always working on the house or in the barn!! Rest in peace uncle Tom you will be missed tremendously. Send some love to Grammy and grampy for me.
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Saturday, August 14, 2021
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Dave Van Wert posted a condolence
Saturday, August 14, 2021
I’ve known Mr. Carlo and the family my whole life. I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with everyone. I’m going to miss passing Mr. & Mrs. Carlo as they went to church and I was coming home from work on Sunday mornings.
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family. Hugs Bob and Sherry Stanton
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Amy Burnham posted a condolence
Friday, August 13, 2021
You were my rock my hero one of a few men I looked up too! Always there quietly standing yet sending love and support with a smile never judging never speaking harshly! I will miss you more than you know and will forever carry you in my heart. How I wish I could have talked with you one more time I thought we had time but I was wrong. Until we meet again love u and miss you more ❤️
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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The Carlo Family, Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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Joe and Family - You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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On behalf of the Ellises, please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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Friday, August 13, 2021
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Please accept our condolences, Thomas always made my brother and I feel a part of the family even though we joined later on, for that we are thankful.
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We will miss you big brother and all of your sage advice~ All Our Love ~ David & Debbie, Courtney & Vince, Eric, Keri & Matt and the boys
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